[old]ADVICE.

YOU WILL NOTICE THAT MY TITLES HAVE NOTHING TO

DO WITH WHAT I WRITE..BUT HEY..MAYBE THEY HAVE

A UNDERLYING MEANING. BUT YES BACK TO THE TOPIC

THE TOPIC IS ACKNOWLEDGEMENT..ACKNOWLEDGE

I'LL ASK THIS...WHY IS IT THAT WHEN WE ARE

FORCED TO FACE CERTAIN REALITIES IN OUR LIVES,

WE SEEM TO HAVE A REALLY HARD TIME CALLING

THINGS WHAT THEY ARE, WHICH IS WHY WE STAY IN

CURRENT RELATIONSHIPS OR PAST RELATIONSHIPS

(WHEN I REFER TO PAST RELATIONSHIPS I MEAN ONES

THAT YOU CANT GET YOUR MENTAL OUT OF..EVEN WHEN

PHYSICALLY YOU ARE OUT OF IT)AND ALSO WHY WE

STAY IN BAD SITUATIONS. I WAS RECENTLY READING

A BOOK WHICH USED A STORY IN THE BIBLE, "THE

BIBLE OFFERS US A STORY ABOUT A MAN WHO SAT AT

THE GATE OF THE CITY BEGGING FOR COINS. WHEN

TWO OF JESUS' DISCIPLES PASSED HIM WITHOUT

DROPPING ANYTHING INTO HIS CUP HE ASKED "WHY"

THE BEGGER EXPLAINED HIS SITUATION. HE PLEADED

WITH THE DISCIPLES FOR HELP. THEY REFUSED! THE

DISCIPLES REFUSED TO BELIEVE HIS STORY BECAUSE

THEY KNEW THE TRUTH."

IF YOU CALL YOURSELF SOMETHING FOR A LONG TIME

OR IF YOU SEE THINGS THE WAY YOU WANT THEM AND

NOT THE WAY THEY ARE YOU WILL BELIEVE IT. IN

THE BOOK IT SAID THAT THE DISCIPLES KNEW THAT

HE WAS IN DENIAL, SO THEY REFUSED TO HELP HIM

DENY HIMSELF MORE. WOULDNT IT BE LOVELY IF YOU

COULD STOP BUYING INTO YOUR BULLSHIT STORIES

AND FACE THE TRUTH? WE THINK THAT WE CAN START

A NEW RELATIONSHIP WHEN WE ARE STILL ANGRY ABOUT

THE OLD RELATIONSHIP. WE THINK WE CAN FIND A NEW

BETTER-PAYING JOB WHEN WE ARE STILL UPSET ABOUT

HOW WE ARE TREATED ON THE OLD JOB. YOU CANNOT

MOVE FORWARD INTO SOMETHING BIGGER, BETTER, AND

BRIGHTER THAN WHAT YOU HAD UNTIL YOU CLEAR YOUR

FEELING ABOUT WHAT THE OLD THING WAS, WHAT YOU

LEARNED AND WHAT YOUR ARE TAKING WITH YOU. WITH

OUT CLOSURE, THE BAD STUFF YOU HAD BEFORE IS

GOING TO FOLLOW YOU. ON THE OTHER HAND YOU

CANNOT FIND THE GOODNESS OF CLOSURE UNTIL YOU

FIND THE GOODNESS IN LETTING GO. EXITING A

RELATIONSHIP WHETHER IT BE CURRENT OR PAST IS

A PHYSICAL, MENTAL, AND AN EMOTIONAL TASK. HERES

HOW I WOULD DO IT...NOT SAYING YOU SHOULD DO IT

BUT I WOULD MENTALLY GET MYSELF OUT FIRST,

PHYSICALLY LEAVE, AND THEN WITH CLOSE OFF THE

EMOTIONS.

UNTIL TODAY, YOU MAY HAVE REMAINED IN A

RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU EXITED A LONG TIME AGO.

JUST FOR TODAY, BE PRESENT ENOUGH TO ASK FOR

WHAT YOU WANT, AND REMAIN PRESENT LONG ENOUGH

TO RECEIVE IT

**BTW**

I WROTE THIS WHILE LISTENING TO MUSIC AND

TALKING TO PEOPLE SO IT MAY NOT MAKE SENSE..LOL

I WISH I HAD MORE CONCENTRATION.